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Not dead… Yet…

This has been a crazy, dreadful and painful last three years.

I am sorry that I have been away, but there are things that were out of my control… I am back and I will start, slowly, working my way back into writing.

With everything that has happened, I seriously thought about never posting or writing again. But a comment made by someone prompted me to pull the ol’ ‘puter out and start, gradually, working on this again.

Apparently there are about 600 of you that have been hanging on. Humbling.

More later.

Where do you like to make out?

When you head out with your love or the love for that night, where are the places that you like to go?

Do you go to the usual dives that all the others go?

Do you like to find someplace off the grid, that is rarely visited and enjoy the silence, moonlight and the gentle breathing of the person that you are with?

Do you like to take more daring of an approach and go someplace were the risk of getting caught it higher and thus increasing the excitement factor?

Just an off the wall thought that I had come over me this weekend.

Tattoos on women


If you were to ask me, when I was much  younger, what I thought of tattoos on women, I would have told you I hate them.  At the time I was brought up and in the household I was raised in, tattoos were taboo and only something you saw on men and if you saw one on a woman, it meant that she was nothing short of slutty trailer trash that slept around.

Fast forward many years and see how my opinion has changed on this… and a lot.

I like tattoos, within reason.  Some tattoos on men and women are nice.  One of two, here or there, tastefully placed, can be nice to see.   I do even enjoy looking at the stories that men’s tattoos tell about them, but I prefer to look at the tattoos that women have.

One of the examples of women I think look good, in part, with their tats is Kat Von D.  While I think many of the tattoos she has complements her, I have an issue with the ones that she has on her hands and face.  These are both parts of her body that I think, in my opinion, are lovely without the ink.  She should have left those alone.  The same with a woman’s chest, breasts are great, most of the time when I am looking at a woman’s boobs, I am not wanting to see ink around or on them.

I still recall seeing a women, not personally, that had a daisy tattooed around each nipple, so that the nipple itself was the center of the daisy.   How does someone even do that?  As a guy, my nipples are sensitive enough, I cannot even IMAGINE was it was like for her to get those tattoos, unless the pain was something that she was into.

Now, another problem I have with tattoos, and I think there are many that will share this one with me, is names, silly slogans or foul language.   I can understand if you had a loved one that passed away and you want to remember them with a little tat on your shoulder or arm to pay homage to them.  I can accept that if there was something major, like a war you served in, that you want to recall, maybe even with the names of a few buddies you lost.   But girlfriends, pictures of Roy Orbison, a picture of an rear-end with your belly button being the asshole… seriously.

I have to admit that I have no tattoos at all.  This is by choice, though I think that one day I may make the move and get one.  Something small and out of the way, that will not draw a lot of attention to myself.  Something that can be covered up.

A Question about Erotica and your reading habits.

Affairs to remember…

Have you ever had an affair?

I have not, though I am not really that against the idea of having one.  I think that in the right situations and conditions they can be therapeutic to a relationship.

I was thinking about things like this when I overheard a person in a bar I visit regularly talking about Ashley Madison.  I did not interrupt the conversation to ask about what they were talking about, but I did hear that one of the ladies mentioned that she was on AM (As she called it.) and was going out on her first date that night, right after she left the bar.

One one hand, I would be a little upset if I knew my wife or girlfriend was going out and catting around like that, behind my back.  But on the other hand, and call me a hypocrite, as a person that likes to play the field myself, I would have no problems spending an evening with this lady.

It is just something that makes me think.  Maybe I should sign in and see what that site is all about for myself.

Anyone out there have any input on sites like Ashley Madison from your own, personal, experience?  If so, do share.